
January is always a weird month of self-reflection. Partly because of the after-holidays low, partly because everyone is obsessed with reinventing themselves in the New Year, partly because it’s my birthday month, and I feel obligated to take a step back examine my life.
I’ve been in London for about a year and a half – a year and a half that’s flown by like nothing. And while it’s all I thought it would be, there’s been a lot that I didn’t see coming. Like my recent bleedingly obvious realisation: London is normal. Not so much in the ordinary sense, because I think that’s the furthest thing from the truth, but normal as in everyday.
It’s an odd change when you start to bend what your definition of ‘home’ is. When I moved away from my mom’s to go to Eastern, I remember it taking about 8 or 12 months before I stopped saying ‘I’m going home for the weekend’ and started saying ‘I’m going to my mom’s house’.
For some people, home is where they sleep at night. For others, it’s the house they grew up in. For me, it will always be Michigan. However, 18 months on from moving countries, I’m starting to get a bit confused. When I was in Michigan, there were at least a few times when I said ‘Well, when I get back ho- I mean, to London’.
I am officially at the Home Home vs. Home stage.
I realised all of this coming back into London after Christmas. I really loved being home home and visiting everyone, but as soon as my key opened the door, and I collapsed on my not-very-comfortable bed, I was really happy just to be home.
If that makes sense.











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4 February, 2010
Blog comments for linkbuilding
Posted by Melanie Seasons under Blogging, Rants, Spam | Tags: blog comment debate, Should you turn off blog comments? Blog comment spam, Spam, Turning off blog comments |1 Comment
There’s a debate going on about whether or not to turn comments off on a blog. While I don’t believe a blog is truly a blog without comments, I’ve actually been thinking about turning the comments off on here – at least for posts older than two months. It’s not because anyone’s being too mean on here, which was the reason Engadget recently shut comments down. It’s because the whole point of a blog is two-way communication, and with the exception of my newer posts, that is not happening. Instead, I’m getting crafty selfish spam that I have to take time out of my day to deal with.
Spam has evolved to the point where it’s difficult to tell if anyone is actually reading this. I receive, on average, about 10 comments a week on random posts from the last two and half years telling me how ‘brilliant’ my writing is, or how they’re ‘really happy they’ve come across the site’ and how they’re ‘instantly hooked and have immediately subscribed’. There are never any spam pr0n-esque links in the body of the comments, but instead links to the most ridiculous off-topic sites. Rugby? Panama Travel? You name it, they’re supposedly reading my blog. Flattered as I might be that I’m reaching such an eclectic audience, their motives are disingenuous, and it pissed me off.
Linkbuilding is an increasingly popular business. Getting more ‘influential’ links to your website means Google thinks you’re more important and theoretically raises your Page Rank. Everyone’s doing it too – SEO people, PRs (yep, like me, but sooo not in this way), media agencies, digital agencies and of course your random Harvard Law blogs who are ‘always ‘researching online for articles that can help me get further ahead’. The latter example being a comment I received this morning on a post called ‘Klassin’ it Up in the Blogosphere’, which was all about the most offensive things I found on the Internet that week in September of 2007 (including a BBC story about a man who peed on a dying woman and deemed it You Tube-appropriate). I would love to see how that story will help them in their career. Really. I’m all ears.
So, yes, I think I will turn off comments on all posts older than 60 days. Sorted.
**Photo from WORD: The official blog of Read Magazine.