I meant to write a bit about ArbCamp yesterday, but for some reason sitting around in my fleece pants in front of a space heater watching old episodes of Arrested Development seemed more productive (at least for my mental health).
ArbCamp 2007 was worthwhile, most definitely, even if a bit harried. There were a couple great sessions, but one in particular I’d like to focus on. I’ll disclose now that the discussion was lead by one of my colleagues.
Basically it was a conversation on how to keep your personal and professional lives separate in the online world – or even if you should. It’s a topic that I’ve been struggling with a bit on this blog and I think it’s a worthwhile subject for anyone who writes even a smidgen about his or her career.
We all know that employers and curious colleagues Google new and perspective employees. The only hiring experience I’ve had is with our current intern, and I can tell you we Googled him before we even interviewed him. Surely we were looking for “bad” things, but we also wanted to find out who he was as a person and not just the smiling, suit-wearing interviewee that eventually would sit across the table.
I was told recently by a colleague that her fiancé’s company banned him from blogging, despite the fact that his blog had absolutely nothing to do with work. I’m lucky enough to work at a job where I can blog about what I do, you could even argue that blogging is encouraged, but I do have a few ground rules.
I will not write about clients Broken with disclosure Jan. 31
I will not write about friendly bloggers Broken with disclosure Nov. 20 and Feb. 11
- I will not focus solely on PR
- I will not focus solely on my personal life.
While the first two are crystal clear, I think the last two deserve some explanation.
PR doesn’t define me. It is what I do and what I am passionate about, but it’s something that I try not to think about on the weekends (ArbCamp aside, of course). The second reason is that when I move to London I would like a way to keep in touch with my States-side friends and family. I won’t have time to talk to everyone every day, so this can be a way to let them know about what will become the daily minutia of my new English life. The third reason, inextricably tied to the first, is that I want people to know me. I’ve mentioned before that while I don’t let my clients or friendlies know about my blog personally, I always like it when they find it on their own. Nothing pleases me more to see the search term “Melanie Seasons PR campaign” in my stats. It means that people are curious about my company, what I do and me.
Even though I hide behind a computer screen all day and am a little afraid to talk to people on the phone because of it, I realise that nothing beats face-to-face communication. I have much better relationships with the colleagues and clients that I’ve met in person than the ones I haven’t. So if I can’t meet someone in person, the next best thing is for them to meet me through my blog.
This means that my personal and professional life has to be tied together in some way. I haven’t seen too many blogs that write about their professional and professional lives at the same time. It’s a bit taboo, isn’t it? I’m still trying to figure out the balance between the two, but I’d be curious to see how others are tackling the situation or whether anyone actually thinks it’s a good idea.