This is something I’ve been thinking about ever since the always-gracious and professional (note heavy sarcasm) Michael Arrington went on his completely ludicrous rant on TechCrunch’s decision not to honor embargoes anymore.  Specifically it was a comment that was made by a ‘curious PR person’

Death to the embargo

Well isn’t that encouraging!

For someone just starting out in PR – or in my case, having experience, but new to the country and therefore starting from scratch – it is very very very difficult to establish relationships with top of the line journalists who get bombarded with pitches everyday.

I was reminded of this little exchange, albeit on a much smaller and certainly more polite scale, when I saw this Tweet from Charles Arthur, blogger and tech journalist.

Charles Arthur

As ‘kind of a big deal’ I realise that he gets a bazillion e-mails a day, but simply deleting or unsubscribing is not going to solve any problems in the long run (especially when the lazys will probably fail to unsubscribe him from their lists anyway). He’s only going to get more annoyed and the PR people are only going to become more annoyingly determined, bringing in the dreaded ‘Did you get my e-mail call?’.  The sort of mentality on both sides only reinforces the bad blood that already exists between the two professions.

So where does that leave everyone?

  1. E-mail gets deleted
  2. No matter what, if you call, you’re interrupting the workflow.
  3. You can’t turn the tables because journalists educating PRs apparently doesn’t work either
  4. Twitter has been suggested, but for me personally, I’m only comfortable pitching in a direct message from my personal account. If the journalist is not following me back, I’m SOL (and if you’ve seen all the journalists on Twitter, the ratio of followers and followed for most is at least 10 to 1 and I’m willing to bet a lot of the ‘not followeds’ are PR people)

So basically, it comes down to the age-old PR whiny statement: If you don’t tell us how you want – or even whether you want – to be pitched, how are we supposed to know?  Most of us are more than willing to accommodate.  It’s in everyone’s best interest.

**As a side note, Charles wrote an excellent post yesterday on the relationship between PRs, journalists and clients.  To be clear, my post is in no way a response to it – more so a random stream of consciousness questioning how we can get along.  Every PR should read it.